Choosing the Perfect Promise Rings For Couples
Don't forget the Matching Couple Necklaces. It is the unsung hero behind the overall look and feel of rings. The choice of metal can make a a dramatic effect on the ring's appearance and its durability.
Gold is a classic option and comes in a variety of hues such as white, yellow, and rose. Platinum is a more durable, but also more costly option. Some people prefer metals that are more unconventional like tungsten or Titanium to give their jewelry a modern twist.
Each metal has its own particular care demands and longevity. For instance, platinum is extremely durable but can develop a patina with time, which is adored by some for its vintage appearance. Gold, however, is softer and more prone to scratches.
Find out if you are suffering from metal allergies. Certain metals, like nickel, commonly used in gold alloy, can cause allergic reactions. If you're unsure hypoallergenic metals like palladium and platinum are safer choices.
Be aware that the metal you choose should complement both the stone and the style of your girlfriend. Think of the metal as the frame that compliments the precious stone. It is also a practical option that fits your girlfriend's lifestyle.
What's the main takeaway? Don't rush your decision. Make sure you weigh the advantages and cons of the various metals and how they can fit into your overall idea of the perfect ring for your girlfriend.
It's time for a spies mission: Find out her size
Let's talk size. You might think you've got everything in order to a T however, if the band doesn't match, you're back to square one. A ring that is too tight can result in an awkward proposal and one that's too loose? Let's say this is an ideal recipe for disaster.
The first step is to decide if you can try the traditional method of taking one of your existing rings to a jeweler who will measure it or wrapping strings around her finger while she's asleep. These are dangerous and could blow up your cover.
It's better to ask her family or friends for help. They can determine her height without raising suspicions. Make sure they keep a secret; you don't want to spoil the surprise!
According to a poll conducted by The Knot The Knot, 39% of couples reported that they searched for a ring together. If you are both willing to talk about the engagement, you can make an occasion of having her size measured. It also removes any guesswork from the calculation.
Practical tip: If in doubt, it's best to go up than down. It's easier to shrink a engagement ring to a smaller size rather than making it larger.
Certain jewelers offer adjustable rings specifically designed for proposal rings, so you can focus on the moment and not worrying about the fit. If she says "yes" you can return to the jeweler and have her ring made to order.